What They Always Tell Us

Starred review from July 28, 2008
Set in Tuscaloosa, Ala., Wilson's searching debut maintains a level of urgency as it explores the bonds between two brothers. As the novel begins, high school junior Alex's half-hearted suicide attempt (he swallowed a bottle of household cleaner at a party) has left him ostracized at school and bewildered his parents; meanwhile, his older brother, James, a popular athlete, feels angry and ashamed. But James isn't all that connected to his emotions: when first met, he's in a motel room with a girlfriend and has had sex with her, but is “filled with a strong desire to be rid of her, for good. It always happens.” Wilson follows the two brothers as the school year unfolds, Alex growing into himself and falling in love with one of James's male friends, James discovering compassion and acting on it. Well-observed details shore up the Southern backdrop, important for the social networks that bind the characters and inform their actions. Insightfully evoked, Alex, James and their friends will leave a lasting impression on readers. Ages 14–up.

September 1, 2008
Gr 9 Up-Alex and James are only one year apart, but the distance between these brothers is vast. James, a popular and talented senior, awaits news about his early admission to Duke, playing tennis and going to parties with his buddies on the weekends. Alex, a junior, is confused and disoriented after having chugged Pine-Sol at a party, lost all of his friends, and found himself secretly dating Nathen, one of his brother's best pals. The backdrop is Tuscaloosa, AL, where Alex knows his emerging sexual identity will never be accepted, and James fears he will be stuck forever if Duke turns him down. The boys wander their way through the school year fulfilling family obligations, befriending an odd and lonely neighbor boy, and navigating their way back to mutual affection after a period of mild estrangement. Wilson's novel offers a look inside the minds of both brothers, allowing readers to experience their parents, their school, and their town from two distinct points of view, confident and fearful, indifferent and melancholy, impatient and reflective. Some readers may feel that the book has a bit of a slow start, with some of the relationships only beginning to develop after page 100. They may come away wishing to have gotten to know the central characters more deeply, although the relationship between Alex and Nathen is touchingly realistic. In the end, this book may appeal to teens who are grappling with decisions about the future, the frustrations of family, and the choices that relationships require of us."Nora G. Murphy, Los Angeles Academy Middle School"

Copyright 2008 School Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

Starred review from November 15, 2008
Grades 9-12 *Starred Review* The story is told in alternating chapters by two brothers. James is a popular, smart senior whoawaits his acceptance letter from Duke. But there are several dark folds in his smooth life. He is in the process of breaking up with Alice, whose only attraction for him was their sexual relationship. Then theres his brother. What was he thinking when he swallowedPine-Sol at a party? Alex is a junior and still trying to find his way back from an impetuous, potentially deadlyact. His friends are gone, but one of James buddies, Nathen, gets Alex involved in running, and slowly Alex sees there might be a life left for him. Soon it becomes clear that the life he wants is with Nathen, who returns his feelings. The writing, which at first seems straightforward, almost bland, becomes increasingly layered as it dispenses its information, gradually and ever more movingly. Adding both texture to the story and an element of mysteryis the inclusion of a youngneighbor boy, whose problems draw both James and Alex to his side and to each other. This is a strong debut, and Wilson shows admirable control of a complicated story that in less-accomplished hands could have spun out of control. The structure literally allows readers to see both sides.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2008, American Library Association.)

January 1, 2009
James longs to leave Tuscaloosa; his brother Alex also feels discontented. The catalyst is James's friend Nathen, who sees Alex's potential as a runner. Alex and Nathen become friends, then boyfriends, in a tender exploration of first love. Concepts surrounding the brothers' social suffocation develop at an unhurried pace as they move toward adulthood.

(Copyright 2009 by The Horn Book, Incorporated, Boston. All rights reserved.)

September 1, 2008
Brothers James and Alex, a high school senior and junior, respectively, live in Tuscaloosa, where reputations are "so damn important" and "people's secrets are like well-guarded jewels." Alternating chapters in a third-person voice that reflects the boys' distance from their surroundings, James and Alex reveal their well-guarded secrets. James disassociates from friends and acquaintances, hoping only to get out of town, preferably to Duke University. Alex, who swallowed a bottle of Pine Sol at a party several months ago, also feels out of place with a discontent he can't quite understand. The catalyst that brings the two together is James's friend Nathen, who sees Alex's potential as a runner and encourages him in sports. Alex and Nathen become friends and then boyfriends in a tender exploration of first love: the initial feelings of joint euphoria, the not-quite-accidental touches, the secret glances, and the beginnings of an affectionate sexual relationship. A subplot involving a neighbor boy resolves too quickly, but the concepts tied to both boys' social suffocation develop at an unhurried pace as the two brothers take their first steps toward adulthood.

(Copyright 2008 by The Horn Book, Incorporated, Boston. All rights reserved.)