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The Odd Woman and the City

A Memoir

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"Funny and elegiac and truth-dealing. . . . Ms. Gornick gets into the fat of feeling. She is as good a writer about friendship as we have." —New York Times
A memoir of self-discovery and the dilemma of connection in our time, The Odd Woman and the City explores the rhythms, chance encounters, and ever-changing friendships of urban life that forge the sensibility of a fiercely independent woman who has lived out her conflicts, not her fantasies, in a city that has done the same. Running steadily through the book is Vivian Gornick's exchange of more than twenty years with Leonard, a gay man who is sophisticated about his own unhappiness. The exchange between Gornick and Leonard acts as a Greek chorus to the main action of the narrator's continual engagement on the street with grocers, derelicts, and doormen; people on the bus, cross-dressers on the corner, and acquaintances by the handful. In Leonard she sees herself reflected plain; out on the street she makes sense of what she sees.
Written as a narrative collage that includes meditative pieces on the making of a modern feminist, the role of the flaneur in urban literature, and the evolution of friendship over the past two centuries, The Odd Woman and the City beautifully bookends Gornick's acclaimed Fierce Attachments, in which we first encountered her rich relationship with the ultimate metropolis.
"Stirring." —Los Angeles Times
"The best books . . . make us feel understood. . . . The Odd Woman and the City can be read as a guidebook for how to exist." —Los Angeles Times Review of Books
"Sharply observed." —The New Yorker
"One of the most vital and indispensable essayists of our cultural moment." —Phillip Lopate
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    • Publisher's Weekly

      Starred review from April 13, 2015
      Gornick, a discerning and sharp-tongued literary critic (The Men in My Life), writes of her lifelong love affair with her native New York City. Gornick, who was born in the Bronx, introduces her prickly friend Leonard, a perpetually disgruntled gay man about her own age who shares with her “a penchant for the negative,” and employs him as a “mirror image witness” to her melancholy, solitary nature. Compulsively judgmental of friends and family (including her aged mother, who was the focus of her Fierce Attachments), Gornick delights above all in reporting snatches of dialogue and startling encounters that reveal a human expressiveness. Such raw moments include a conversation with her 90-year-old neighbor, Vera, who bemoans the sexual ineptitude of the men of her generation, and a lively exchange of sign language on the subway between a father and his disabled son. Gornick is admittedly lonely and sometimes befuddled by her feminist ideals, questioning her youthful belief that solitude was preferable to romantic love without equality. Gornick returns to many of the writers whose own quirks and grievances have obsessed her (Seymour Krim, Henry James, Evelyn Scott, and George Gissing, whose novel The Odd Women gave Gornick her own book title) and finds their voices reassuring and full of nuance, need, and the pain of intimacy—much like the voices of the city she craves.

    • Kirkus

      February 15, 2015
      Life inspired by the buzzing humanity of a great city.Gornick (Emma Goldman, 2011, etc.) takes her title from George Gissing's novel The Odd Women (1893), about a "darkly handsome, high intelligent, uncompromising" woman who scorns "what she calls the slavery of love and marriage." Courted by a man who respects and excites her, she insists on independence, fears her own emotions and retreats from their relationship. Like Gornick, a "raging" feminist in the 1970s, Gissing's heroine "becomes a walking embodiment of the gap between theory and practice: the place in which so many of us have found ourselves, time and again." Regret, anxiety and nostalgia inform this finely crafted memoir, built of fragmentary reflections on friendship, love, desire and the richness of living in New York. For the author, New York is a city of melancholy, peopled by "eternal groundlings who wander these mean and marvelous streets in search of a self reflected back in the eye of the stranger." At times, she walks more than six miles per day, daydreaming, observing and trying to "dispel afternoon depression." She interacts with beggars and shopkeepers, overhears snatches of conversation and revels in a city that she admits to romanticizing. "If you've grown up in New York," she writes, "your life is an archaeology not of structures, but of voices, also piled one on top of another, also not really replacing one another." Gornick chronicles ephemeral relationships and thwarted love affairs and, in particular, her friendship with Leonard, a gay man who, like Gornick, has "a penchant for the negative." They meet weekly, unfailingly, "to give each other border reports." Her friendship with Leonard leads her to consider Henry James' relationship with Constance Fenimore Woolson, "a woman of taste and judgment whose self-divisions mirrored his own." A gentle, rueful, thoughtful memoir.

    • Library Journal

      December 1, 2014

      Josh Levin teaches ESL classes in Chicago while dreaming up off-kilter ideas for screenplays he'll never pursue. But when he becomes involved with one of his students, a Bosnian woman with a violent husband, life's absurdities suddenly seem less frothy than dangerous. Hemon returns to fiction after The Book of My Lives, a National Book Critics Circle finalist, as were his novels Nowhere Man and The Lazarus Project, which was also a National Book Award finalist.

      Copyright 2014 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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