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Home Made

A Story of Grief, Groceries, Showing Up—and What We Make When We Make Dinner

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NEW YORK TIMES EDITORS’ CHOICE • An “extraordinary” (The New York Times Book Review) tender and vivid memoir about the radical grace we discover when we consider ourselves bound together in community, and a moving account of one woman’s attempt to answer the essential question Who are we to one another?

“Your heart will be altered by this book.”—Gregory Boyle, S.J., New York Times bestselling author of Tattoos on the Heart
 
Liz Hauck and her dad had a plan to start a weekly cooking program in a residential home for teenage boys in state care, which was run by the human services agency he co-directed. When her father died before they had a chance to get the project started, Liz decided she would try it without him. She didn’t know what to expect from volunteering with court-involved youth, but as a high school teacher she knew that teenagers are drawn to food-related activities, and as a daughter, she believed that if she and the kids made even a single dinner together she could check one box off her father’s long, unfinished to-do list. This is the story of what happened around the table, and how one dinner became one hundred dinners.
“The kids picked the menus, I bought the groceries,” Liz writes, “and we cooked and ate dinner together for two hours a week for nearly three years. Sometimes improvisation in kitchens is disastrous. But sometimes, a combination of elements produces something spectacularly unexpected. I think that’s why, when we don’t know what else to do, we feed our neighbors.”
 
Capturing the clumsy choreography of cooking with other people, this is a sharply observed story about the ways we behave when we are hungry and the conversations that happen at the intersections of flavor and memory, vulnerability and strength, grief and connection.
NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY SHE READS
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    • Kirkus

      May 1, 2021
      A moving memoir about how "systems fail but food is revolutionary." In 2006, Hauck began an unusual volunteer project at a group home for adolescent boys in state care. She had conceived the project with her father, a social worker and co-founder of the nonprofit residence; after he died, the author decided to make the plan a reality. "Cooking at the House," she writes in this highly affecting story, "would be a way to finish one item on my father's largely unfinished to-do list." A high school Spanish teacher, Hauck had no clear plans for her future, and she was burdened by an abiding sense of grief over her father's death. "The project," she reflects, "was less about retracing his steps than understanding the map of the world he lived in, to figure out how it might also be mine." The boys--eight at any one time--picked the menus, she arrived once a week with groceries that she paid for herself, and they cooked and ate together for nearly three years. The boys' food choices usually leaned toward pizza, stir-fry, and quesadillas, but once they asked for fried chicken, which Hauck had never made. Armed with a recipe from a friend's mother, she soon realized that it was far different from what the boys had eaten. "Until the fried chicken, we hadn't really addressed race," she writes. "It was obviously always present, but we never talked about the ways race inflected our food, our bodies, our everything. Until the fried chicken, we cooked around it." Hauck creates indelible portraits of the wounded, lonely, and disillusioned boys, some of whom lashed out in anger at a world that had failed them. When the residence closed in 2009 due to lack of funding, the director implored Hauck to write about her experience: "You have to tell the story. That something happened here. Or there will be no trace of any of it." Hauck's sensitive memoir honors the boys she nourished. A captivating debut.

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    • Booklist

      May 15, 2021
      Hauck's father, Charlie, spent his career working at a community home in Boston known as the House, a place for teenage boys in state care and adults with intellectual disabilities. After Charlie's sudden death in 2004, Hauck searched for ways to stay connected to him. She met with Gerry, who ran the House with Charlie, and suggested teaching a cooking class for the boys. Though skeptical, Gerry agreed to let her try it out a week at a time. This memoir describes the routines Hauck developed with the boys who lived in the House as she grieved her father. Her writing captures the personalities and voices of the young men so clearly as they request recipes, tease her for acting like a teacher, and live in the space between childhood and the adult world. She explores some of the challenges facing the boys, from health issues to lack of support in learning to read, using their stories to personalize systemic problems. Home Made is an affecting, thoughtful look at the lives of boys in transitional moments and a personal reflection on a father's legacy.

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