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Girls on the Brink

Helping Our Daughters Thrive in an Era of Increased Anxiety, Depression, and Social Media

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15 “simple but powerful” (The New York Times Book Review) strategies for raising emotionally healthy girls, based on cutting-edge science that explains the modern pressures that make it so difficult for adolescent girls to thrive
“This is a brave and important book; the challenging stories—both personal and scientific—will make you think, and, hopefully, act.”—Bruce D. Perry, MD, PhD, New York Times bestselling co-author of What Happened to You?
ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR: The Washington Post, Mashable
Anyone caring for girls today knows that our daughters, students, and girls next door are more anxious and more prone to depression and self-harming than ever before. The question that no one has yet been able to credibly answer is Why?
Now we have answers. As award-winning writer Donna Jackson Nakazawa deftly explains in Girls on the Brink, new findings reveal that the crisis facing today’s girls is a biologically rooted phenomenon: the earlier onset of puberty mixes badly with the unchecked bloom of social media and cultural misogyny. When this toxic clash occurs during the critical neurodevelopmental window of adolescence, it can alter the female stress-immune response in ways that derail healthy emotional development.
But our new understanding of the biology of modern girlhood yields good news, too. Though puberty is a particularly critical and vulnerable period, it is also a time during which the female adolescent brain is highly flexible and responsive to certain kinds of support and scaffolding. Indeed, we know now that a girl’s innate sensitivity to her environment can, with the right conditions, become her superpower. Jackson Nakazawa details the common denominators of such support, shedding new light on the keys to preventing mental health concerns in girls as well as helping those who are already struggling. Drawing on insights from both the latest science and interviews with girls about their adolescent experiences, the author carefully guides adults through fifteen “antidote” strategies to help any teenage girl thrive in the face of stress, including how to nurture the parent-child connection through the rollercoaster of adolescence, core ingredients to building a sense of safety and security for your teenage girl at home, and how to foster the foundations of long-term resilience in our girls so they’re ready to face the world.
Neuroprotective and healing, the strategies in Girls on the Brink amount to a new playbook for how we—parents, families, and the human tribe—can secure a healthy emotional inner life for all of our girls.
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    • Publisher's Weekly

      July 4, 2022
      This clarion call by science journalist Jackson Nakazawa (The Angel and the Assassin) explores threats to girls’ mental health. The author examines the reasons behind the uptick in depression in girls over the last decade by telling the stories of three young women in their early 20s—Anna, Deleicea, and Julia—and offers parenting advice on how to counteract negative influences. Anna’s cliquish high school dovetailed with unrealistic beauty standards on TV shows to give her low self-esteem, a process the author elucidates with research showing girls have stronger harmful biological reactions to social threats than boys do. She also details the dangers posed by social media, noting that “the more time a teenage girl spends on social media platforms, the more likely she is to develop depressive symptoms” and describing how Julia felt compelled by the incentives of social media to sexualize herself when she was still a preteen. To help parents guide their daughters through these pitfalls, the author provides 15 “antidotes” that include helping daughters discover a “sense of something bigger” and encouraging them to pursue their passions. The smart analysis and wealth of neuroscientific and psychological research adds nuance to public discourse around girls’ mental health, and the three profiles drive home the human stakes of these societal problems. Timely and incisive, this issues an acute warning that the kids are not alright.

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      Starred review from July 15, 2022
      How to help girls deal with the many toxic elements of contemporary society. Jackson Nakazawa, the author of The Angel and the Assassin and Childhood Disrupted, opens with a disturbing note: "When we look at the mental health of American girls today, one thing becomes clear: We as a society are failing pretty miserably....One out of four adolescent girls reports suffering from symptoms of major depression compared with fewer than one in ten boys." This stark assessment sets the tone for the author's incisive analysis of the causes of the stress, anxiety, and depression that American girls are experiencing at an unprecedented rate. Of course, social media plays an outsized role, as girls constantly compare their lives with others online--even though those portrayed lives are often grossly misleading. Jackson Nakazawa cites research into the roles that genes play during pregnancy and how parental stresses in early childhood can affect a girl's ability to handle adversity. Furthermore, girls are reaching puberty at earlier ages, causing undue stress and anxiety about body image. Jackson Nakazawa chronicles her interviews with numerous young women, giving readers a firsthand perspective on the many difficult issues they face, and she offers 15 strategies for how to work with girls, giving them the tools they need to navigate an often misogynistic society. These include seeking the help of mentors and mental health professionals, figuring out how to "dial back on evaluating your daughter," and learning how to "create routine, ritual, and structure--including a family media plan." Outside of the family, the author "wants to see men--especially those in powerful roles...wake up to the reality of the fear girls experience growing up female in a world dominated by sexism and male power." All of the author's advice is sound, and her insights into how to start the process of change make this an important book for parents of girls. A perceptive, informative examination of the problems young American girls face and how to change them.

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